Challenging men are SExy! What makes certain men feel the need to challenge the words or actions of a woman they find attractive. It would be so much easier to just go with the flow and agree, let us have our way! Give us what we want and life would be so simple…wouldn’t it?
Thankfully there are men out there who beg to differ, for those men it goes against every cell in their body to let anything slide for the sake of an easy ride. These men feel the need to peel away our layers exposing our inner most intimate thoughts leaving us feeling naked and vulnerable.
When I was younger I was always attracted to the energy in the crowd who paid no attention to me…youthful challenge. It was the chase that was the exciting part back then. As I’ve aged and matured the challenge is still stimulating but it’s definitely no longer about the chase. Its whether or not I am challenged intellectually that keeps me wanting more.
Every now and then we meet our match. These male energies make us think about what comes gushing out of our mouths. They question who we are, how our brain works and why we believe in certain things. These men are put on earth to make us grow and unfold evolving within our own existence! They are not your regular male energy, they stand alone and are willing to put their all on the table if asked. There is nothing better than a man who has the confidence to challenge a women who intrigues him. They are the risk takers, the seekers. They want more from us than we are usually willing to give.
A man who can make you re-evaluate your doings or simply your words, is beyond SExy. Intellect is SExy but challenging ones intellect is even sexier!