Music and Sex Appeal ~ Male Perspective

I will echo Tracy’s remarks about the sex appeal surrounding a person who can make music, but it’s the voice that does it for me.

I appreciate a woman who can make your body turn to molten chocolate at the sound of their voice. They don’t have to be singing mind you; a sexy voice alone can leave a man thinking to himself, ‘you had me at hello’, but there is just something extremely seductive about a woman who can sing. It’s not a prerequisite but I think its high on the list of qualities that heightens the attraction.

As far as stars and singing abilities go, Reese Witherspoon surprising enough, immediately came to mind when I read Tracy’s post. I can’t say that I ever followed the music of June Carter, but soon after I saw ‘Walk the Line’ for the first time, I bought the soundtrack. Reese makes the twang a sexy thing. I am imagining a play on a Duke Ellington song; ‘It don’t mean a thang, if it aint got that twang.’

I was seeing a woman who had mentioned in passing, that she liked to sing. We were on our way home from a night out in Toronto, when suddenly she started to sing to me. I will tell you that being stuck on the Queen Elizabeth Way while listening to a beautiful woman serenade you is not a fair place to be; especially hearing their singing voice for the first time. I could hardly concentrate on driving.  Imagine being lost in a song in your car, and then imagine that voice is sitting right next to you.

I love those words Tracy ended her post with: ‘Give me your heart, make it real, or else forget about it’. Don’t just give me your heart. Give me all of it or move on. I don’t want half of you. That’s what I get out of those words! Very powerful.

Dave Mathews hands down, has some of the sexiest lyrics. My favourite is ‘Lover Lay Down’. You can’t listen to his lyrics and not want to experience the moment that his art portrays. Lyrically, ‘Crash into Me’ is probably even sexier than ‘Lover Lay Down’. “‘hack up your skirt a little more, and show your world to me.” His music tells a very vivid story.

Music and Sex Appeal ~

There is not much sexier than a man who can make music…well maybe one who can make you ‘sing’ in the throes of passion! Carlos Santana and Rob Thomas are the perfect combination of sex appeal. One using his hands on his strings that almost sounds orgasmic and the other seducing us with his deep throaty voice that makes you pause in thought. Each of them uses what they’ve got! When a musician composes a song he’s putting a part of himself out there, it’s raw and personal!

Women love men who are strong enough to be vulnerable exposing themselves with words…that’s sexy! There are so many musicians who exude irresistible sex appeal. It’s not the typical good looks that draws our attention you don’t even need to see them to slip into a sensual fantasy. It’s the way they passionately seduce their instrument and the tone of their voice that mimics a mating call that moves us. You can’t help but be drawn in and stroked as if it were you they were playing.

Give me your heart, make it real, or else forget about it….