What are the elements that make a conversation, argument or debate with the opposite sex so electric? Difference of opinion?Challenging words? Fire vs Air sign? The beginning of love? Or simply sexually charged magnetism. What makes dialog get so damn hot between male and female energy? If you’ve experienced it, you know exactly what I’m talking about. You can actually feel the energy starting to build. It’s not just be the words themselves or the delivery it’s the feelings behind them that come from a much deeper place, the heart and mind. Those words along with chemistry, emotional vulnerability and sexual energy between two creates a charge that lights them on fire! A potential explosive combination!
When a woman is challenged by a man, and starts to fall, sparks start to fly! It might be as simple as a conversation that starts the current flowing. The faster the flow, the harder it is to back away! We get drawn in testing our boundaries pushing them to their limits stretching them further than we’re used to…and then it happens…electrical arc!
Some of us are drawn closer to the current by nature, the static is what we seek. There is always risks involved when dealing with a charge of this nature. We still can’t resist walking closer…sometimes a little too close for comfort! It makes us feel alive on the edge of discovery. The instant our emotions grab hold it’s impossible to let go unless thrust back by the force of our own fear.
When electricity and chemistry join forces with the heart it leads to electric conversations, stimulating debates, challenges that make us reach beyond our limits and conflict that drives us wild. All of these elements can be the making of a passionate breath-taking love affair, and who in their right mind wouldn’t want that!
Have you ever stood gazing into the eyes of a man and found yourself being turned on by his intellect. No…me neither, but by his body for sure! I’m kidding! I absolutely love in-depth conversations with the opposite sex. Intellect is sexy and when you add a splash of humour (insert angels singing here)…irresistible! When a man and women are intellectually connected it’s stimulating beyond control. The right conversation gets the juices flowing leaving us tingling with excitement! Its like a duel with dialog! Imagine that for a moment (day dream pause) a handsome guy who knows how to turn you on with his mouth using intellect! Women don’t want cheesy lines or cheap verses they want a man with substance who can also teach them something outside of the bedroom. That’s sexy!
I am not talking about men who have the gift of the gab I mean men who are incapable of being manipulated by women who use their sexuality as a tool to get what they want! Men who are looking for a woman to turn their brain on excites me! Conversation is key to any relationship lasting past the bedroom. You can be sexually attracted to someone and not have anything in common when it comes to intellect. Eye candy just doesn’t cut it when you want to take it to the next level! I’d give up the candy to have the man who can seduce me with his mind any day! I love smart men!
Knowledge is power and with power comes responsibility. Doesn’t the handsome man in the picture above look like he would be intellectually stimulating, powerful, responsible and incredibly sexy all at the same time? Great ad campaign if he’s not!
Seeking more knowledge allows growth of the human mind. I find a man who seeks knowledge very attractive, it shows a thirst for life. It shows they’re always wanting more, in turn making me want more…in more ways than one! Intellect is sexy!
~ The photo above is from the website Alex Cannon one of the leaders in fashionable sportswear, New York!