The raw chemical connection makes no sense. It just is.
We try to distance ourselves from one another but in time find our bodies entwined inhaling the energy of the other like a drug we can not live without.
I have tried to deny our connection in my mind many times, but my heart keeps leading me in a circle back to him each time. He breaks through my walls when his eyes connect with mine. He sees me. There are no rules or predetermined ways in which we are expected to be…we just are.
I close my eyes to join him. His scent lingers tempting me to draw in just one breath and try to walk away. I am unable to inhale his energy and release him. He stands as close to me as he can without touching my skin, making me wonder if he is only within the confines of my mind. I am afraid to reach out and not touch him.
I feel his breath on the side of my mouth, his lips desperately want to kiss mine. The heat of his body warms mine with an undeniable burning desire to have me. I can feel his want twisting and turning into a need, like a turbulent storm brewing with a force that can not be reckoned with. We are standing in the middle, captured by the raw energy neither of us have words for. We have no choice but to ride it out to see where our bodies land.
I open my eyes to see his looking deeply into mine. I am safe and unafraid as his strength reaches around my waist grabbing me forcefully toward him as the world around us spins out of control. His powerful presence releases my fear of the unknown as I surrender to the storm letting go.
Eyes still closed, I awake to the feeling of warm rain splashing on my face, washing down my flesh. As my lashes lift up, my dreamy brown eyes are exposed to him between my legs leaning over me. He is looking right into my soul wondering as am I what just happened.
Intimacy…the ultimate sexy! Being drawn to someone without control is a feeling that many of us only experience once in a lifetime. It’s a magical force between two who connect on a much deeper level. It’s not just about sexual chemistry, although that too can be very intimate. Pure intimate feelings come from a much deeper place. A touch of the hand while staring into the eyes of someone who sees right inside your soul is intimate. A feeling of belonging together formed from a bond of experiencing the other.
There are two types of intimacy; physical and emotional. Love is intertwined in both. There are also two types of love within intimacy; compassionate and passionate. Compassionate love involves diminished feeling of attachment to the other. It is authentic, committed with profound feelings of caring for the other. Passionate love is identified by infatuation, intense feelings of sexual longing, throes of ecstasy and feelings of exhilaration that fill the room when you are together. To have a combination of both physical and emotional intimacy with passionate love is what most of us are ultimately seeking.
It’s a look across a room filled with people to that one person who turns you inside out and back again. A gaze that is only meant for you. A moment suspended in time. They know exactly what you’re thinking. It’s the magic of an intimate connection.
When we open our heart and expose ourselves making it known we are vulnerable to the other we experience the most profound intimate moments. It can’t be controlled, even if you try. You can walk away physically but your mind won’t allow you to leave the room they’re in. It can be a scary step if you’re not ready to open yourself to its entirety. A risk that many will not allow their heart to explore.
When you fall intimately for another human being they live inside your mind. They change the physiology of your body. They stir your soul. You become enveloped by their energy. They surround you no matter how far their physical form is from yours. They stand next to you inhaling your presence. It’s a powerful sensation that can overwhelm the ordinary.
Intimacy is considered the product of a successful seduction…so sexy!
There is not much sexier than a man who can make music…well maybe one who can make you ‘sing’ in the throes of passion! Carlos Santana and Rob Thomas are the perfect combination of sex appeal. One using his hands on his strings that almost sounds orgasmic and the other seducing us with his deep throaty voice that makes you pause in thought. Each of them uses what they’ve got! When a musician composes a song he’s putting a part of himself out there, it’s raw and personal!
Women love men who are strong enough to be vulnerable exposing themselves with words…that’s sexy! There are so many musicians who exude irresistible sex appeal. It’s not the typical good looks that draws our attention you don’t even need to see them to slip into a sensual fantasy. It’s the way they passionately seduce their instrument and the tone of their voice that mimics a mating call that moves us. You can’t help but be drawn in and stroked as if it were you they were playing.
Give me your heart, make it real, or else forget about it….
Whether you use your body, eyes or language being expressive is sexy. Words lure, ravage, tantalize, tease and can even leave us breathless after a delicious exchange. A steamy set of words can throw us into the heart of passion or make our knee’s buckle at their strength. Words can create hysterical laughter, warn us, cut like a knife, calm, melt, arouse or make us sob uncontrollably if put together just right. Words are capable of seducing leaving us speechless feeling exposed. Words can make us shudder.
Words can make our heart beat out of our chest. They penetrate every cell in our bodies. Words create change. Words cause pain. Words connect us to each other. Words are not only spoken they are seen and felt, some melting ever so slowly in our mouths.
Communication starts in our eyes drawing us closer our body respond in its own language stimulating us orally. Words stir emotions deep within us escorting us down a path of pleasure or pain where we are greeted by all our senses. Words can leave us spellbound craving more.